Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Wise Decisions

While making a decision I try to keep everyone as happy as possible, the one important person that I keep in mind is myself. I know that might sound selfish, however sometimes you have to decide what is best for yourself. When I was young, I always made decisions based on what my family wanted me to do, and majority of the time the decisions I made were good. However, there is one decision that I have recently made, which was to go to Montco for college. I did it because my mother can not afford for me to go away for school, so I was going to go there for a year or two and transfer out. I find this to be very sad and depressing for me, because that was not the school that I want to go to; however I did it because that was the best thing for my family and I. Decisions for me are very hard to make because I am the type of person who over think situations to the fullest. I like to think of all the bad outcomes by making my decision and good outcomes. Normally if the good out weighs the bad I stick with it, and when the bad out weighs the good I take another route to improve the situation. The only thing that I try to avoid while making decisions is hurting people in the process. There are times when a decision I have made hurt someone but it was still for the best, like my mother always tells "Life isn't fair."I like to follow that saying and do what is best for me.

No comments:

Post a Comment